Love Hurts


heart cactus2Happy Valentine’s Day. 


Sometimes love hurts.  It doesn’t matter whether you are in a love relationship or not. Any type of relationship can have it’s issues (business, friend, etc). 


I believe everyone we meet is coming into our lives to either teach us, or help us heal something, or we are the teacher. And as you may or may not know, you cannot control or change anyone else. But you can change yourself, you can change how you look at a situation or a person.


What can we do when there's a relationship and it’s maybe not going exactly as we planned? 


Send love to the situation. Imagine the ‘issue’ or the ‘situation’ and include the person (or people). Imagine you are blowing the situation into a balloon. After it’s all filled up in the balloon, tie the end of the balloon so the air (and the situation) won’t escape.


Call on the Angels to encircle the balloon, the situation, all the the people involved (including you) with love. Ask the Angels for assistance with the situation and release the balloon, the situation and the people involved, to the Angels.


Change the outcome. Something I have done with dreams and past events where I did not like the outcome, is to change it. I imagine how the situation happened and as I’m recalling it, when I get to the part I don’t like, I change it.


For example, years ago, I had a dream where someone broke into my house. Though I woke before any harm came to me, it was very disconcerting to me.


I sat down and went back into the dream. I imagined that I sensed someone was going to break in and I called 911 as well as a friend to come over. The break in did not happen.


And the original dream is very difficult for me to remember how it was originally.


Journal about it and then burn the paper. This works for so many things. There really is something so healing about writing things out. Speaking the words out loud is also a great way to get the feelings out.


After you’ve journaled, take that piece of paper and (safely!) burn it. If you are unable to burn it you can rip it up into many little pieces with the intent the situation is being transmuted with love. Or you can put it in a dixie cup with water and freeze it.


After it’s frozen for awhile (as long as you want), I’ve tossed it down the garbage disposal, with love of course. 🙂


Have a conversation, Higher Self to Higher Self. This is something you can do just before you go to bed. Intend that your Higher Self will talk with their Higher Self while you sleep. They can work out the situation in a wonderfully, perfect way where everyone will be happy.


So there you have it. If love or relationships aren’t going the way you’d like, hopefully one of these will help.


Please add things that have worked for you in the comments section below.


Angel Blessings to you.



Empowerment 4 You

15 Responses to Love Hurts
  1. Michelle Nichols
    February 14, 2013 | 12:56 pm

    Writing things down – I have written letters to people that have hurt and upset me, usually when something can’t be resolved. I store the letters away.

    • Susanne Broome
      February 14, 2013 | 8:19 pm

      I had done that many times when I was a kid too, with letters to my Dad. 🙂

  2. Debra Jason
    February 14, 2013 | 8:16 pm

    If relationships aren’t working out well, I think the first thing is communication. If both people aren’t willing to talk, then it makes for a challenging situation.
    Your tips are all wonderful and I think can be in done in addition to communicating. And, if the relationship is not meant to be, your tips will be helpful in the healing process.
    Happy Valentine’s Day. Here’s to having love in your life today & every day.
    Thanks ~Debra

    • Susanne Broome
      February 14, 2013 | 8:21 pm

      Thank you Debra. Yes, communication. These are another way of communication when you’ve tried the mainstream 🙂

  3. Bonnie Gean
    February 14, 2013 | 8:30 pm

    I do journaling to release all the bad feelings and it really does help!

    Doesn’t do me any good to keep it bottled inside!

    • Susanne Broome
      February 15, 2013 | 9:00 am

      You are absolutely right on – no good to keep it bottled up. What comes to mind is a Champagne bottle as the cork goes flying. That’s what could happen if they’re kept bottled up. 🙂

  4. Scott
    February 14, 2013 | 9:17 pm

    Great advice for dealing with conflict, which always comes in relationships of all kinds.

    • Susanne Broome
      February 15, 2013 | 8:59 am

      Yes. And the cool thing is, if ‘they’ think the ideas are crazy, it’s OK, you can do them anyway. 🙂

    • Susanne Broome
      February 17, 2013 | 8:25 am

      And it works too. 🙂

  5. Louise Myers
    February 14, 2013 | 10:22 pm

    Love heals all! I’m on board with sending love… also have written out my feelings, and then let it go. Good tips Sue!

    • Susanne Broome
      February 15, 2013 | 8:58 am


  6. Sabrina
    February 16, 2013 | 5:34 pm

    Great way to cover the subject on a day that is suppose to be about love. Of course it can be love with friends, family, yourself….not just with a partner.

    • Susanne Broome
      February 17, 2013 | 8:24 am

      I think this is another way of sharing your love 🙂

  7. Rmcmv
    August 9, 2017 | 5:30 pm

    First off I want to say terrific blog! I had a quick question that I’d like to
    ask if you don’t mind. I was curious to know how you center yourself and clear your head before writing.

    I’ve had a tough time clearing my thoughts in getting my ideas out there.
    I truly do take pleasure in writing however it just seems like the first 10 to 15
    minutes are generally wasted just trying to figure out how to begin. Any ideas or tips?

    Thank you!

    • Sue Broome
      August 10, 2017 | 9:35 am

      What a great question Monique. First though I have to ask, if you were to sit down and just write or type for 15 minutes while you feel your head is clearing, is there anything that would come out of that, which could be useful? Because sometimes, that’s really where we are and we need to pay attention.

      What I ask each time is I call on my trio, God, Jesus, Michael (Archangel Michael), to clear my energy and I always feel like there’s a dome of loving protection that comes over me. And then I ask what do people need to hear through my blog. And then words come.

      I hope that helps Monique. 

      Angel Blessings to you

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